Sloka 18 from Dancing with Siva
What Is God Siva's Pure Consciousness?
Parashakti is pure consciousness, the substratum or
primal substance flowing through all form. It is Siva's
inscrutable presence, the ultimate ground and being
of all that exists, without which nothing could endure.
Aum.
Bhashya
Parashakti, "Supreme Energy," is called by many
names: silence, love, being, power and all-knowingness.
It is Satchidananda--existence-
consciousness-bliss-
-that pristine force of being which is undifferentiated,
totally aware of itself, without an object of its awareness.
It radiates as divine light, energy and knowing. Out of
Parasiva ever comes Parashakti, the first manifestation
of mind, superconsciousness or infinite knowing.
God Siva knows in infinite, all-abiding, loving
superconsciousness. Siva knows from deep within all
of His creations to their surface. His Being is within
every animate and inanimate form. Should God Siva
remove all of the three worlds, they would crumble,
disintegrate and fade away. Siva's Shakti is the
sustaining power and presence throughout the universe.
This unbounded force has neither beginning nor end.
Verily, it is the Divine Mind of Lord Siva. The Vedas
say, "He is God, hidden in all beings, their inmost soul
who is in all. He watches the works of creation, lives in
all things, watches all things. He is pure consciousness
, beyond the three conditions of nature." Aum Namah
Sivaya.
Lesson 18 from Living with Siva
Brahmacharya In Family Life
The observance of brahmacharya is perhaps the
most essential aspect of a sound, spiritual culture.
This is why in Saivism, boys and girls are taught the
importance of remaining celibate until they are married.
This creates healthy individuals, physically, emotionally
and spiritually, generation after generation. There is a
mystical reason. In virgin boys and girls, the psychic
nadis, the astral nerve currents that extend out into and
through their aura, have small hooks at the end. When
a boy and girl marry, the hooks straighten out and the
nadis are tied one to another, and they actually grow
together. If the first sexual experience is premarital
and virginity is broken, the hooks at the end of the
nadis also straighten out, but there is nothing to grow
onto if the partners do not marry. Then, when either
partner marries someone else, the relationship is never
as close as when a virgin boy and girl marry, because
their nadis don't grow together in the same way. In cases
such as this, they feel the need for intellectual stimuli and
emotional stimuli to keep the marriage going.
Youth ask, "How should we regard members of the
opposite sex?" Do not look at members of the opposite
sex with any idea of sex or lust in mind. Do not indulge
in admiring those of the opposite sex, or seeing one
as more beautiful than another. Boys must foster the
inner attitude that all young women are their sisters and
all older women are their mother. Girls must foster the
inner attitude that all young men are their brothers and
all older men are their father. Do not attend movies that
depict the base instincts of humans, nor read books or
magazines of this nature. Above all, avoid pornography
on the Internet, on TV and in any other media.
To be successful in brahmacharya, one naturally wants
to avoid arousing the sex instincts. This is done by
understanding and avoiding the eight successive phases:
fantasy, glorification, flirtation, lustful glances, secret
love talk, amorous longing, rendezvous and finally
intercourse. Be very careful to mix only with good company-
-those who think and speak in a cultured way--so that the
mind and emotions are not led astray and vital energies
needed for study used up. Get plenty of physical
exercise. This is very important, because exercise
sublimates your instinctive drives and directs excess
energy and the flow of blood into all parts of the body.
Brahmacharya means sexual continence, as was
observed by Mahatma Gandhi in his later years and
by other great souls throughout life. There is another
form of sexual purity, though not truly brahmacharya,
followed by faithful family people who have a normal
sex life while raising a family. They are working toward
the stage when they will take their brahmacharya vrata
after sixty years of age. Thereafter they would live
together as brother and sister, sleeping in separate
bedrooms. During their married life, they control the
forces of lust and regulate instinctive energies and
thus prepare to take that vrata. But if they are unfaithful,
flirtatious and loose in their thinking through life, they
will not be inclined to take the vrata in later life.
Faithfulness in marriage means fidelity and much more
. It includes mental faithfulness, non-flirtatiousness and
modesty toward the opposite sex. A married man, for
instance, should not hire a secretary who is more
magnetic or more beautiful than his wife.
Metaphysically, in the perfect family relationship,
man and wife are, in a sense, creating a one
nervous system for their joint spiritual progress, and
all of their nadis are growing together over the years.
If they break that faithfulness, they break the psychic,
soul connections that are developing for their personal
inner achievements. If one or the other of the partners
does have an affair, this creates a psychic tug and pull
on the nerve system of both spouses that will continue
until the affair ends and long afterwards. Therefore, the
principle of the containment of the sexual force and
mental and emotional impulses is the spirit of
brahmacharya, both for the single and married person.
Sutra 18 of the Nandinatha Sutras
Seeking Inner Light And Stillness
Those who live with Siva attend close to His mystery.
While others seek "name and fame, sex and money,
" they seek the clear white light within, find refuge in
the stillness and hold Truth in the palm of their hand.
Aum.
Lesson 18 from Merging with Siva
Making Wise Decisions
Life is a series of decisions also. One decision builds
into another. To make a good decision, we have to
again bring our total awareness to the eternity of the
moment. If we project ourselves into the future to try
to make a decision, we do not make a decision with
wisdom. If we project ourselves into the past and in
that way formulate our decisions, again they are not
wise decisions, for they are decisions made through
the powers of the intellectual or the instinctive area of
the mind. The only good decisions come to us when
we hold the consciousness of the eternity of the
moment and go within ourself for the answer.
The best thing in making a decision is: when in doubt
, do nothing. Have the subject matter so clearly in mind
, so well thought out, that soon the answer will be self
-evident to you. There will be just no other way to go.
Good, positive decisions bring good, positive action
and, of course, positive reactions. Decisions that
are not well worked out--we jump into experiential
patterns haphazardly or emotionally--bring reactions
of an emotional nature that again have to be lived
through until we cease to be aware of them and
experience them emotionally.
Each time we have a decision to make, it's a
marvelous test in this classroom of experience. We
can make a good decision if we approach it in the
eternity of the moment. And, of course, there are no
bad decisions. If we make a decision that's different
than what we would make in the eternity of the moment
--we make it through the instinctive area of the mind
or the intellectual area of the mind--we're not sure,
totally, of ourself. We do not have enough information
to make a good, positive decision.
So, when in doubt in making a decision that's the time
to know we have to collect up more information,
think about it more. Each decision is the foundation
for the next series of experiences. When you are in a
sequential series of experiential patterns, you are not
making decisions at that time. Only when your
experiential pattern has come to an end, and you're
ready for a new set of experiences in certain areas
of your life, those are the times when you make
new decisions. Weigh carefully each decision,
because that is the rudder that guides your ship
through the whole pattern of life.
Think it over carefully. Go in for intuitive guidance.
And nobody knows better than yourself, your own
superconscious being, what is to be the next set of
experiential patterns for you to go through in your
quest for enlightenment. It's all based on decisions.
Don't expect someone to make decisions for you.
They are second-hand, not the best. Others maybe
can give a little bit of advice or supply a d perspective
or added information for you to make a better decision
But the decision you make yourself in any matter is
the most positive, most powerful one, and should be
the right one. Do it from the eternity of the moment
t. That is the state of awareness to hold.